just want to cry :(

[yaklin]

just want to cry :(

[Candee]

what all is going on?

[weck]

read last post just had a baby and some other things going on

[hartig]

postpartum depression ,it's supposedly normal

[shimmel]

Relax, while the current deal is emotional in the long run this is a blip on the radar screen. If you are concerned about your husband's feelings, go to the doctor and see about PPD. SHOW him you are concerned too about your sex life. It's a far different thing to just try and tough it out and ask him to do the same. That would show you don't care about dealing with this, that you WANT to get back emotionally, physiy and sexually. I know my reaction would be MUCH more supportive.

[Subi]

I've read your last post I just didn't think not wanting sex within seven weeks of having a baby was something to cry about. Ponder maybe, but not mourn. Are you coming from a place of sex being one of your major pastimes?

[weckerly]

its just sex. i guess i just feel overwhelmed and i don't understand how to deal with all the moods, emotions and thoughts

[joers]

At least you are aware of them. Your husband should be aware too and you can help him to deal with you at these times. Tell the man.

[Thanh]

You're dealing with pretty normal stuff Of course, that's not helpful at all. Does your husband understand the procedure? Does he understand that sex would be painful, and might be that way for several months? If he weren't interested in you right now, would you be worried that he doesn't want you? I have a feeling that might be the case, and that he's kind of damned either way. You need to recognize that HAVING intense mood swings is normal after pregnancy. You're going to feel like shit, occaionally. Don't try too hard to "rationalize" these feelings right now. Don't try to pin them to anything, even the events that trigger them. Let him know that a) you'll be ready for sex in a month or two, b) if you are acting crazy, it's hormones that are causing it, not him. Then, go have a good cry, and don't beat yourself up over it. Get his help when you need it. Put the baby in his arms when he gets home, and do what you need to for yourself. If he's a good boy, give him an hj/bj to keep him happy. It doesn't take long, and you'll prevent ill-will from building up over your recovery.

[allmond]

Let the tears roll hon your cup overfloweth just let it out the hormones gotta come out somehow!