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Giovanni
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2011-01-26 11-25-33 |
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R U On the Path to Healing? Like Communication-Trust-In lonely woman looking Williamsfield IL timacy?
I'm in Hawaii on the Big Island (Pahoa area) and willing to share life and happiness here. There are so few people on this island, so I reach out to the mainland for a partner and mate who would enjoy relocating to Hawaii, to live in and share paradise. I will be back on the mainland to visit family and friends so perhaps we could meet then or you can come over to visit here. I am open to living other places, other than Hawaii, but I do love it here, and I'm sure if you come here to visit, you would fall in love with it too. Any color or ethnicity is okay! Let's face it, almost every man and woman in our society has been traumatized in childhood and adulthood. It takes a personal decision of great bravery to decide to do the "homework" to start healing from the injuries of our childhood and past relationships. Have you made that decision? Would you like a life partner that has made that decision and has healed from the many painful things that our dysfunctional society has exposed us to? That would be me! Looking for a special woman for a loving monogamous relationship ( friendly and don't drink alcohol, but fine if you have a beer or a glass of wine, just no consistent drinkers, please. I don't like being around 'alcohol energy'. You be at peace with yourself, I am at peace with myself. I'll be your loyal best friend and that's what I want from you. I am a skilled masseur and enjoy trading massage, love hugging, kissing and tender affection and play and humor. We can be goofy and playful and light and make each other laugh alot; that's what life is about, isn't it? I'm into Art, Alternative and World Music, Indie and Foreign film and some classics, have a huge collection of amazing documentaries and films on dvd. Though I enjoy some mainstream entertainment, I mostly prefer films that touch us inside and make us bigger, enjoy some tv shows (Glee, Modern Family, Community) (downloaded without commercials); don't watch regular TV. I'm very left of left politiy and I want our whole system changed into something that is indeed that "kinder, gentler nation" that ole GW Bush's daddy talked about. As it is, America is fully dysfunctional and a big source of problems for the whole world. Not to mention the destruction we are inflicting on our own precious environment and the high level of stress most people live under. I am proudly anti-patriotic, anti-machismo and a nurturer and healer by nature. Educated in the social sciences and very adamant about not going along with the status quo. America needs to change if our world is going to survive. So please, no patriots or warmongers or people who think that America is the 'best country in the world' cause that just isn't true and you and I would not be compatible. I'm into the healing arts, meditation, breathing, grieving, joy and laughter. You must be capable of loving yourself, loving me, at ease in your body and comfortable with your own sexuality. Affectionate and playful as I am. We can discuss everything, anything, and it's a rush to be with someone who knows and understands us, isn't it? A sense of humor and please no one carrying around old tragedies as if they were fresh today. Be capable of much laughter and able to cry and grieve when you feel hurt, like I do. Be capable of sharing about anything, including emotions, and you must be a self-calming person so that if something does upset you, you deal with it, then come back to place of calmness and peace. No hotheads or drama queens, please. Please be into meditation or be willing to learn and to focus on deeper breathing so that you can be self-calming. The shallow breathing pattern we were all taught as children cues our body to pump adrenaline into our system, and adrenaline makes us "headtrip" endlessly, destroys our calmness and inner peace, so please understand the benefits of deeper breathing and be willing to practice it daily to stay in a calm beautiful place. Interested? Please write something about yourself in detail as to who you are and what you are looking for in a relationship, and be willing to swap numbers after an initial email or two. No email tag. Please send some small photos (aslist doesn't forward larger sized photos) or email them to me after first contact through regular email. We all have our own standards of beauty and mine are pretty broad, but it is true that some people I'm attracted to and some I'm not. And I understand that you are the same way. I'm just your average guy in good health, and looking for someone else who's average and not into playing Ken & Barbie. You be comfortable in your own body and let me do the same. I dress very comfortable, shorts and t-shirt and flip-flops most of the time; that's why I moved to Hawaii; to live in this warm comfortable climate and not be into 'dressing to impress'. Let's talk and see if we might be compatible to share something good! I know how to love you and allow you to love me too!! Isn't that wonderful?
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