I'll play.

[rocklin]

I'll play. Dear Misery, Through your life, there will be many people you want to fuck. Male, female, genderqueer - it doesn't make a difference. That's the way we're made. Real life can get dull, our fantasies can seem enticing, so we're tempted to drop what we have to grasp at something that may or may not be an illusion. Your sexual feelings may be real, or they may be escapist fantasy. However, your marriage and are real. You gave your word that you were entering into a monogamous relationship. What will define you as a person is how you choose to keep or break your word. That isn't to say that you couldn't negotiate an open marriage - but then he gets to sleep around with men, or women, too. Signed AmyBot

[eduardovna]

You should go read Amy's advice You two have something in common.

[rapson]

ultimately, all you are is your word my snarky answer would be that a torrid bisexual affair that rips apart not just one, but two, families (hopefully pillars of the community) is just the entertainment her sleepy, conservative town has been secretly praying for.

[birch]

Dear MIM You are going to fuck up this perfect opportunity and you know it. Confront her? Why not share your feelings with her over a bottle of wine or three? In a hot-tub, wearing a bikini. As far as the ramifications go, don't worry about the community or your son, but do prep your husband. It's only fair, what if comes home from work early to discover you with a fresh pussy mustache laying on the couch smoking a menthol cool and stroking your sons best friends moms nipple with your other hand? Can you say 'awkward'. You know how must people get their surname based on what they do in life? Well right now your surname is Clueless, so figure it out already. But don't take my advice, hell, look at my last name. ADAA

[starns]

Well I wasn't even fucking close.

[gurtner]

But it was classic Shylove

[Windowing]

Dear MiM Life is about recognizing opportunity. In this case, your son's best friend presents an opportunity for the future. In another 10 years, he'll be legal and horny. Just as your husband is starting to ignore you sexually. And the kid will be frequently around your house without attracting suspicion from neighbors-- maybe even sleeping over! As a middle-aged housewife, you could work him for several years of good service. Do you really want to complicate that relationship by going down on his mom's muffin at this point? Sure, she might be fun for a week or two. But after things turn sour, she'll be warning her son to keep his shirt on when he mows the grass. My advice-- bank that ass for a rainy day.